Why Blanket Judgements Are Always Wrong
A very beautiful incident happened in Ramayana. After Rama was conned out of his kingdom and went into the jungle to live a hard life, his wife got kidnapped by Ravana. Having love for his wife and being despondent and concerned about her, he walked all the way down south, gathered an army of Tamil people, went across to Sri Lanka, waged a war, and killed the ten-headed Ravana in battle.
After he won the battle, Rama said, “I do not want to go back to the kingdom. I want to go to the Himalayas and spend some time in the cave of Agastya Muni because I want to repent for the great sin that I have committed. I have killed someone who was pious, a great devotee of Shiva, a phenomenal scholar, a great king, and a generous man.” The others were shocked. Lakshmana, his brother, said, “What are you talking about? Ravana kidnapped your wife.” Rama responded, “He had all these negative qualities like greed, jealousy, and lust in his other nine heads. But there was one head which had great wisdom, knowledge, piety, and devotion. I regret killing that head.”
What this story is trying to tell you is that all of you have ten or more heads. One day, your head is in greed, another day in jealousy, another day in hatred, another day in love, another day in beauty, and another day in ugliness. If people see you in a moment of jealousy, they say, “This is a jealous one.” If they see you in a moment of greed, they say, “This is a greedy one.” If they see you in a moment of hatred, they say, “That is a hateful one.” If they see you in a moment of lust, they say, “That is a lustful one.” Different heads are working at different times, but everyone has at least one head of love, beauty, generosity, and compassion. The biggest mistake people make is that instead of condemning a quality, they condemn the person. This is what Rama was trying to say: “The many horrible things he did are the other nine heads. But I saw that one head of tremendous possibility which unfortunately, I had to take off.”